I Want to Win Her Love
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Male
I love a girl from two years. She is my best friend and consider me as one. But she says that she is not interested in me to share her life. But I think I cant imagine my world without her. What should I do to win her love. I want to be everything for her.
Please advice me something that can make her mindset change.
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
You cannot change a person's mindset; you have to give up on the thought of changing *her* way of thinking, but you can change her perspective. First, I hope you don't sound this desparate when you talk to her about this. Your "romantic" interest may scare her away. Second, and I know this sounds cliche, but be yourself. Use honesty, humanity, kindness, and if all else fails, use your sense of humor to connect with her. Girls love a funny guy - look at Adam Sandler - and laughter has a way of breaking down barriers between people . It is good that you see each other as best friends. That is sometimes more valuable than anything else. My best friend is a male and I'm a female. We go camping together and all kinds of stuff. We have never been romantic. We have been great pals for 15 years. I have been with my current boyfriend for 2 years.
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