Moving farther in relationship
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hello, while looking over your sight, I couldn't find a answer to my question. (there might be one but I might of missed it)
My gf is 15, and im 17. I don't want to move to fast or to slow for her. We have been going out for little over 2 months now, and just kiss (tease) each other, no groaping or anything. Could you list a possible answer to these questions.
What are great signs of her wanting to move futher in our relationship?
Is it ok to tell her, that shes in controll of the speed of the relationship? Because I dont care if we go to slow or to fast. I just want to be with her.
Thank you for your time.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Make first move
ok well im 14 and my bf is 18 and were a lot like u but we've been dating for a shorter time. he says he wotn do anything till im ready and i lvoe him so much i would do anything for him. yah we makeout and we tease each other to. thats fine well she will give u hints sometimes girls want to do something but they dont want to seem slutty so they want u to make the first move. u can ask her or u can make the first move but if she tells u to back off then u better do it. cz some girls want more and some r happy with just being hugged and kissed. im the kind of girl that wants u to make the first move and i want u to just be there for me when i need someone to talk to. relationships arent just about sex there about u being there for one another.
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