Can I win her heart? Or should I just completely move on?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I met this girl at the end of my senior year of college. At first, I did not like her at all. But after hanging out wit her and her friends, I found out that had alot in common and she was basically everything I was looking for in a girl. After hanging out wit her, I could tell that she really liked me. She even gave me a lil heart felt presnet and at that point I feel for her. However, when I asked her out, she wont go. She became scared. We are good friends but I try all the time to get her to go out but she never wants to. She hasnt been out on a date since her last boyfriend over a year ago. I have heard every excuse imaginable why she wont date me now but she says maybe down the road. It was recently her bday and her friends told me she wanted me around for that. I showed up and got her a cute lil present. I made her day. However, again not date and she became scared. A couple days later I told her how I felt and that I loved. I scared her when I told her that. I really do love her but all the chancing and rejection is draining me emotionally....What is my next move? I have been talking to other girls but no one compares to her right now....I know she has feelings for me or atleast did at some point....She got me to fall for her......I wouldnt mind spending the rest of my life wit her......Can I win her heart? Or should I just completely move on?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
god that is my exact predicament sept im a senior in high school and im not sure bout the whole life partner thing, she got out of a 2 year relationship about 6 weeks ago and we've gone on a few dates but she seems to scared to move on so i was a lil worried and she was acting weird but i think i know what to do now, thankz george (daivd-17y/o)
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