the eye contact always gets me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Well there is this guy and he knows i like him becuz i told him last year! well we have the same friends except for a few and one of my friends talked to him for me and he said that if he could get to know me better he might ask me out! so thats good i guess! and then he told this other girl that he really doesnt know some other stuff but i think he was lying cuz i asked one of his friends if he was seeing anyone and she said that he hadnt had a girlfriend in a long time! Well also one of my friends told him my cell number and she didnt write it down or anthing and this was on a friday and he came up to her on monday and said it and it was right and she said he acted like he was going to call me but he never did! Well we have said hey to each other before and he has said hey first before so thats good, i hope! He kind of figits when he is around me and it seems like he tries to be around me sometimes but i'm still unsure! ALso we make eye contact all the time and it sticks ya know! and he was talking to one of my friends and he pulled off a piece of string from his pants and told her to give it to me and she did!Lol but i guess he was just being goofy! also i wrote him a note telling him about how he told my friend he wanted to get to know me and i just dont want him to think i'm stupid! but the eye contact always gets me, cuz he looks me right in the eye! my mom said that he is just playing little games with me and hopefully next week a lot of us might get to go to the movies together so mabye sumthing could happen then but i think im confused becuz i liked him first and i just need to know if he is interested at all!?! ~H
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
This is your chance
well this boy you like likes you but he dont want know body else to know and so i guess he trying to not give your friends the detail because he want you to come up to him and tell him i know how you feel i have a crush on two guys but i dont know how to approach him one of the boys i like is in the 12th grade and he know i like him but his friends think something else idont know and the other boy he is in the 11th and i like him and i dont know if he know i like him but your case is differnt he is shy and just go up to him and tell him how you feel because if you keep waiting then you wont have that chance with him and youll be out of luck just remember this love is like a 4leaf clover hard to find luck to keep just go for it this is your chance.
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