I just wanna make sure I'm not on a one sided feeling
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Person
when we are out on whether a date or gathering, he'll be nice and tease me...talks to no one except me...but i'm married and he knows...he did mention before it doesnt matter whether one is attached or married...well, then that wont be a lasting relationship right?sometime he make me feel loved but sometimes he makes feel is ihe treating me like part-timer?
for instance...if i send message over cellphone to him...he takes long time to reply and may not reply at all at times...we'll be going on an overseas trip soon...just 2 of us...i just wanna make sure i'm not on a one sided feelings...
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male
You are married
... i am in a position quite similar. I have a huge crush on my co worker. As always, it all started with a good frindship. I had no interest on her initially, but it grew up with time. I am married, and so is she. Sometimes she comes close to me and draw hearts on my notebooks, hold my hand to take me somewhere with her... All of these MIGHT be a sign that she likes me, but other times I think she considers me a very good friend, a closer friend. I really dont know whether she has a crush on me due to these signs I interpret as yes she does. Perhaps, its better to keep it the way it is just because we are both married and because feels so good to have a close friend like that, even though sometimes (or most of the times) you get hurt a lot because you want to tell her how much you love her.
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