A lot of my friends think that I should ask him out
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
After my ex and I broke up we didn't talk at all we might say hi or something.He had a new girlfriend and I went uot with his best friend to make him jelous that lasted about 2 hour because I hated the best firend.He didn't get jelous.i still like my ex and I wont him beck.Then I came to school in my cheerleading out fit and he never saw me in it and he was looking at me so much and then I was wolking down the stair and someone wisteled and when I looked back I he was there but I don't think he know that I know.I'm pretty shure that it was him.Then this other guy asked me out and I said yes because he was nice but I didn't like him that much.So my ex found out the next day and he would say his name every time that I would go by and I would ask him why he cared that I was dating him and he said that they were bestfriend.So when I was tolkin to my boyfriend I asked him if they were best friend and he said no we talk sometimes. Then another time when I was wolking by he said his name and I asked him what was wrong with that guy he quite and then he said ammm nothing.Then we would talk about some guy that he thinks that I like and then for the rest of the day I would be telling him ehy I didn't like this guy.Then I broke up with this guy and we stoped talking.So I wrote him a note that said that I liked him and put it in his locker.that day he came to the game for the first time ever.When I had a brake we would talk a little. He didn't say anything about the note.The next day in school I asked him what he thought of the cheerliding he really didn't say anuthing.Then we stoped talking again.Does he like me and a lot of my friend think that I should ask him out but I don't wont to because he's still dating this girl and I never asked a guy before.Does he like me.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
He needs to mature
The thing is he has a girlfriend, and it seems as if he really don't like to much if he is searching up and down your back. You may be jealous and all your going out with this boy for is to make him jealous. If you stil like your ex you should never go out with another boy while have feelings for someone else. Your new boyfriend and you will not last. You should have waited til you got over him. But by my opinion i think you should get over him, because if he really wanted you, he wouldn't be going out with someone else. Or it might be he needs to mature some more til you all go back out !
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