i wasnt sure if it was a friend thing or a lets get to know more about each other turn into more kinda thing
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
ahh i dont even know where to begin,school just ended and its been one hell of a week.
4 guys have asked me out this week. And i dont like any of them. i tried.. as bad as that sounds. But i like this guy that i've been after awhile. sometimes i think im stupid for letting them go. the guy i like did ask me to hang out this summer..but i wasnt sure if it was a friend thing or a lets get to know more about each other turn into more kinda thing.he said to me "oh well we need to talk more and get things arranged so we can chill" then he said "me and you can make this summer fun"
i dunno what to say to these other guys, im the worst with situations like that! im the queen of avoidence.. but what if im letting the lvoe of my life go.because im focused on one guy who may not be interested?
HELP!! what do i do.. im so confused. should i take the easy road and go out with someone who likes me, or should i try and see where me and this other guy end up. in the end the other guys will get hurt no matter what right? it would be so selfish and heartless for me to lead these guys on right? tahts what im confused about!
please help me sort everything out!
thank you soo much!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
i think that you should just hold on to this other guy. but if he isnt the one for you move on and find another one dont get caught up in tricky situations at this age. if its meant to be its meant to be dont go chasing something that isnt there. and for the other guys, be there friends and if they cant handle that then they obviously never really liked you, and if you dont like them then how can they be the lvoe of your lives?
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