how do i talk to him about the it's deeper that a brother and sister friendship?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
You told me to talk to him more, But the thing is that we do talk everyday and it just gets more and more confusing. He asked me to move with him to Michagin. He dosent want to hang out with other girls he has already tried that many times but everytime he does hang out with another girl and i meet the other girl she tells him not to talk to me but he says that he cant do that shes (i) my best friend. so i guess the real question is that how do i talk to him about the its deeper that a brother and sister friendship? And its like were boyfriend and girlfriend with out the intamacy? How would you bring this up if it was your issue?
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
What do you feel?
Think about what you feel and want not what he feels and wants , be sure you are not just reacting to his attraction to you by returning it be sure you realy have feelings of Love that goes beyond siblings and if you have these feelings then decide if you want to share them with him there is nothing wrong in telling some one you love them,with out an expectation.
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