Too soon to tell?
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Hi, I am teenager from Wisconsin. I've been dating this guy for about a month, and it's been absolutely perfect. I have dated a lot of guys before, but this one is different and I have very VERY strong feelings for him. College is a big thing and we're going to be pretty far apart after the end of this school year. I just wanted to know if I should tell him how much I care about him or even that I love him. I don't know if it's too soon, but I certainly know that I've never felt like this before or anywhere near it. Thank you so much for your help!
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Im in the same area as you are. I've been seeing this amazing guy and I feel so in touch with him. I have been wanting to tell him that I love him but as the Friendly advisors say it is too soon. Yes your feelings are strong but hold off on telling him that you love him, takes time to build things especialy beautiful things as a loving realtionship. Your question helped me out as well. Because it would be jumping into things. He just came out of a realtionship of 5 months and doesn't want anything to serious and me telling im those 3 words are kinda out of the question right now. AS for me I just came out of a year and a half realtionship that I was engaged after 6 months of being with the guy.... So take your time... good things come to those who wait :)! Im doing that and I think it will deffently pay off in the end !
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