He Lied and Cheated - I Still Want Him
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
Ok, here's my dilemma. There's this guy I really like. He took the time to get to know me despite the fact I had a boyfriend at the time... one thing led to another and i cheated on my boyfriend with him.
I broke up with my boyfriend only to find out that he has a girlfriend of 5 years! I would just end our "relationship" there, but our chemistry is unbelievable. He said so himself! We continue to be together behind his girlfriend's back... should i continue this in hope he will fall for me and break up with his girlfriend? i'm not sure how to approach him about the situation without sounding like a pathetic fool! any advice you give would help a lot!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
You cheated on your bf for him n he cheated on you and his gf too, n now u both are cheating on his gf, what will all this lead to??
Either he will ditch her for you or he will ditch you for her.Even if he ditches her for u ru sure he wont ditch u again 4 some other gal, would you be able to trust him completely. If you are sure he likes you and wont cheat on you den go ahead, but if u hav even a slightest of doubt den dont.
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