but that is the worst pain ever does it hurt because im nervous?

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ok hi im 16 and me and my x been on an on and off relationship for 5 months and he is my first love and i am him first love he always tel me loves me even tho we dont go out and he says we are going to move in with eachother and get married and he says all the sweet things but then he'll turn around and not call me for 3 days and im wondering does he really love me? i mean it seems like it cause no matter all the things we been through (and we been through alot) we still stay together and i was about to let him take my virginity but it hurt really bad and other girls say it dosent hurt that bad but that is the worst pain ever does it hurt because im nervous? or because hes not the one? because i have no doubts about him please help me and tell some advice A.S.A.P

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Wait if you can

I feel u strongly but u nid2 think twice abt given him all of u.i had dis guy once and he also professed his undying luv.i almost gave him my virginity but i always was2 painful.so we neva went all d way.i l8r got2know dat he was nt only a 2timing jerk he wantd me4my body.so play safe and carefull ok.and who knows he mit be the right one afta all.bt wait if u can till u get married.drs alot of pride and joy in dat

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