How to forget someone
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Ok well there is this guy I have liked for the last couple of years hes 16 and in 11th and im 14 in 9th. I know i dont have a chance with him because of some immature things I did in the past. He has a girlfriend now shes in 10th and it annoys me whenever I see them together I want to vomit. I was recently in a relationship with someone it ended due to some difficulties but the whole time I was with this person I couldnt stop thinking about the other guy. I want to forget him because its holding me back ive tried finding other people but it dosent work. Life is too short for this crap what should I do?
User Submitted Advice from a 51-60 year old Female
It doesn't really matter what the situation is, rejection hurts and this kind of problem continues throughout life. Your feelings are there whether you are comfortable with them or not, and you can't control the other person. How will you know happiness if you don't feel sadness? The point is that life is long and you want to be the best you can be. Do whatever it takes to feel really good about yourself, and happiness will come to you. Let the other person go, maybe years from now they'll come back, maybe not, who knows? It's all up to you. You feel alone, but you're not, it's part of life. A big hug from a grandma!
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