I Want Him to Say He Loves Me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have been dating this great guy for nearly a year now. Everything is great, he is the best boyfriend anyone could ask for. We are both young at 23 years old.
The only problem is ... he has never told me he's in love with me or loves me. I was the one to pursue this relationship and was the one to ask him out, make the first moves etc ... but now I feel it's his turn if he feels anything more for me. I don't feel that I should 'ask' if he loves me. I know I love him.
What should I do? Should I ask? How to approach this or should I be the first one again to tell him how i feel? I would rather hear it from him first...
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
That's right. Read the book "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. Some people say it, some people do things to show it, some spend time with you to show it, we all have different languages of love. To anyone out there who is reading this, get the book, read it. Whether you're in a relationship or want one currently (why would you be here otherwise) it's awesome. This book hits home on alot of ideals.
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