Does Losing your Virginity Hurt?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
How much does it hurt for a teenage girl to lose her virginity and how does she know if she's ready?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Sex can be pleasurable, but its up to you and your partner of course. Don't just do it because other's are doing it and you want to fit in the incrowd, but do it because of how you feel about each other. But if your not ready, then of course, the choice is yours. But when you are ready, trust me, you will know. For example, i'm 22 years old, my boyfriend is 20. My first time having sex was 2 weeks ago with him and the best thing about it is, he is my first and true love. So the experience was great. It wasn't at all that bad, the pain was there, but he was so gentle and he made me feel so comfortable. If you are a virgin and you want to experience your first time, make sure he or she is the right one for you, because you have to be ready mentally, emotionally, and spirtually. If he or she is the RIGHT one for you, trust me, it will be an expereince you will never forget.
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