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I love this girl SOOO much.



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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
Ok heres the rundown. I love this girl SOOO much. I have felt this way about her since we first met through highschool about a year ago. We talk farely frequently at school and on instant messenger, but we arent exactly great friends, we just chit chat. She knows that i "like" her through way of my big mouthed friends but she doesnt really know how i feel. Heres the problem, she recently hooked up with some guy (yes yes i did nothing for a year), and also she is WAY out of my league, to talk to her is a miracle in its self. I have no clue what to do. Should i tell her how i feel even though it would be kind of weird since she has a boyfriend or should i just wait out this boyfriend (which might take years for all i know), but even if i did tell her how i felt before now, she would have probably just made up an excuse to spare my feelings(because she's wonderful like that ^_^ ). Please help me, i dont think i can stand the sleepless nights thinking about her and wishing i was with her much longer, i hate being some miserable.




User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Monkeys & Bananas


ok, that is so wrong... don't listen to her... that will not happen... trust me... never give up on something you want.... if you want it bad enough... you'll get it ...

I Love This Girl....
Ok, I am writing on MySpace, because the thought of an email to "this girl" wouldn't be enough to prove... to prove that... I LOVE THIS GIRL....
I love this girl SOOO much. I have felt this way about her since we first met more than 6 years ago in sunday school class... I remember the day, January 3rd 2000... I knew her through middle school, and the fact became apparent that I loved her after a year or so....
Finally, on November, 13th 2001, she said "YES" actually she said, monkeys, which meant yes...(bananas meant No) I'm glad it wasn't bananas..... It was the best 1 month, 3 weeks, and 4 days of my life... That's right, On January 4th 2002... she broke up with me... we we're still young, I understand... but I still don't remember why it was that we detached... she probably doesn't either....

Time has passed and it will be 7 years that I have known her on Jan. 3rd 2006...
We talk on instant messenger, but we arent exactly the same as we used to be, like SUPER great friends, we just chit chat. She knows that i "love" her though.... she will always know it... I don't know how she will always know, but she is never suprised when I tell her....
Heres the problem, she hooked up with this guy (yes yes i did nothing for 3 years),(I was away) and now, a couple years later, they're engaged to be married.... I have no clue what to do.

Should i tell her how i feel even though it would be kind of weird since she has a fiance or should i just wait out this fiance thing and see if she gets cold feet.... What if she doesn't get cold feet... What if she's gone forever?? How long will it take for her to be mine again...it might take years for all i know, but even if i did tell her again how i feel, she would have probably just made up an excuse to spare my feelings(because she's wonderful like that!

All I know, is whatever it takes... I want her to be mine... I want her to be the one that I grow old with... I want her to know what a Godly man is like, and how a family should be, b/c I know exactly what it shouldn't be....
I LOVE THIS GIRL... she knows who she is... I LOVE THIS GIRL!!!
Any comments... I could write forever, I'm a journalist for crying out loud, I write what runs across the scrolling marquee in my mind... I LOVE THIS GIRL!


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