i feel like she is loosing intrest in me and i really do not want that to happen
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
my gf and i have been going out for 6 months since yesturday. lately though she has been acting really weird. she doesnt talk as much to me while were on AOL instant messanger as she use to. she says its because shes looking at myspaces. also on some of her friends on myspaces that are guys she has been saying things like "hey so and so, when are we going to hang out again?" idk she might just be being friendly but she never use to do that. she also hasnt been to excited about us hanging out either. like a conversation i just has with her about 10 minutes ago.
ZATO zero ONE: ok well
ZATO zero ONE: im extremely bored so either one of us bikes or both or i take a nap.
LandingOnMyFace: meh, go take a nap i guess
ZATO zero ONE: so you dont want to do anything tonight?
LandingOnMyFace: i guess not
ZATO zero ONE: k
im not sure if i should be worried about this but i really am. i feel like she is loosing intrest in me and i really do not want that to happen. any help and advice will work. thank you.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
become the romeo
heres my advice think about what it was that made her like you, your first date, your first converstation, things that intrigued her about you, you have to become the person she first fell in love with. trust me i know, at first you do everything in your power to impress a girl and once you got her you get used to her being there and start "slacking off", basically what i'm saying is, become the romeo that swept her off her feet the first time.
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