I just feel sick please help me Im scared of his temper and Im confused about what to do
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
im so so sad I have been with my partner for 8years and I have been through alot will him I love him but I dont he can be nice and then so mean I hate the way he speaks to his son and all we do is fight I have asked him to leave and told him I know longer love him but he didnt even react to thing he is always angry and I have no more energy left I cry all the time and work so hard, I do every thing and still cant make him happy I dont want to touch him I just feel sick please help me Im scared of his temper and Im confused about what to do,I have no family and peapole that have meet him think he is mr wonderfull.
but Im not crazy I know what he ist like to live with he says he dosent hate us myself and our 3year old he says he just gets fustrated what do I do???
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
don't be a doormat
I dont know how old you are..But if you have ajob you can take care of yourself and your child...You said you dont love him no more..Than why stay in that verbal abuse life style..If you dont thank much of yourself then thank of your child and how he is going to grow of with being verbal abused ...Who knows it may lead intop physcial abuse...There are offices you can call to help you get out and start over..Id say take that step get some back bone and make a better life for you and your son...
Best of luck..But dont stay there and let this man use you as a door mat!!
Lynn from Arkansas
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