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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
I am 17 year old average pakistani college student living in london where i am surrounded by pretty white girls. well i am silly sometimes, definitely dumb like people say, ugly and stuff like that.
Ive never had a girlfriend in my whole life and the problem is because of my skin colour. I always see black girls and asian girls but on the street but i dont really pay attention to them that much.
i have asked out a girl before. she turned me down because of my skin colour, it kind of hurt but i kind of got over it,it knocked my confedince out a lot, it badly upset me, i really liked her.
I havent actually fallen in love, i know why i like white girls alot is because they're so sexy, other guys must feel the same as me. and i want to say hi and make a conversation but then what happenes if the girl doest like me and what happens if its because of me being 'PAKI'. i dont think i can take that type of rejection. i am very shy with no confidence at all, ive never had luck in finding someone who i want and i dont think that will happen. All my friends, even my white friends have said i have bad taste but i cant really change it.
could i be cursed or something? could there be another way to approch a blonde girl?, a girl at collge i dont know at all.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Don't beg a girl
Sometimes Girls like males that are 25% sensitive and probably 75% good looking. I had an attemped to have a girl friend once. She is A white girl, she liked me, but we needed to get to know each other first. So then 2 Years passed by and then she comes up to me and we start talking.
My suggestion for all of you is let the ladies come to you, dont stalk them. Begging a girl to be your girl friend isnt going to work.
Alot of White girls like white boys. Im sorry to break it to you but it's true. Try to act natural and start a conversation first. Dont just ask a girl imediatly, get to know them first. Try it out.
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