How to tell him I like you
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
hi there........ i have a problem....well i like this guy for two years and til this day i am unable to tell him that i like him. sometimes he gives me this signal that he too might have feelings for me then there are times when it seems like he just doesn't. he is older than me and i think he is too mature for me to say "i like you"... we're not even that good of friends yet...i mean he is very religious and the only time i talk to him and the only thing i talk to him about is religious matters. I like him so much that i know for sure its like anymore but instead its love. what do you think i should do? how shall i tell him in the best way? please help me........thank you
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
not like a date
you don't got to tell him that you like him right away (even though i know it's been over two years) just give him more clues,like for instance ask him if he wants to go to the movies or something like that.but whatever you do,DON'T send one of your friends to ask him to the movies!!! and once you ask him in person don't make it seem like a date. just go up to him casually and say that you and a couple of friends are going to the movies and if he wants to go. but DON'T beg him. and once your at the movies try to get close to him but not to close and then maybe one thing would lead to another.and after that time if he seemed as if he was attracted to you just tell him that you're starting to have a thing for him.
p.s make sure he isn't with anyone first!
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