Am I Still a Virgin?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Hi I am a teen under the age of 18, and i have two questions to ask regarding sex. Well for my first question i want to know if i am still a virgin. About a week ago i was at my boyfrien's house, and well we started to do all the typical common things that b/f and g/f do (hugh, kiss, smooch ect)but it started to go a little too far where it got to the point where my panties were off, so he started fingering me, and before i knew it, his penis was inside of me. I didnt want to tell him to stop because i didnt want to make him feel bad, but after about 10 minutes i told him to stop because i didnt really feel comfortable. Now everscince that day my question is, am i stil a virgin? It might seem like a stupid question to ask after what i just explained, but the thing is that i didnt bleed, therefore I assume that my cherry didnt pop, and i believe that if your cherry dosent pop then you are stil a virgin. Another thing is that i didnt really feel much pain at all, so i think that the penis didnt go all the way through. Well as for my first question that's about it.
My second question, how is a guy able to notice if the girl he is having sex with, is a virgin or not?
Well that is about it for my questions, thank you for taking the time to read.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
No, you're not a virgin, you had sex. not everyone has a cherry TO pop. you can be born without one, or you could pop it using a tampon, etc.
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