how can a shy girl get a guy to notice her?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i am 16 years old and the guy i like doesnt know me. he goes to my school and is in my grade. he's only in my history class. one of my best friends offered to talk to the guy i like. he told her he doesnt know me, and then she told him he should get to know me lol. he seems really cool though and hes so hott lol. he's interested in things i like, i know that because he had to stand up in front of our history class for this get to know our classmates activity in the first week of school. if you were to ask any of my close friends, theyd tell you i am a very quiet girl (at least in school). how can a shy girl get a guy to notice her?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
One step at a time
Okay come on george, like if it was that easy...
I would never just say hi to the guy I like, if I have never even talked to him. Just start off by smiling and seeing if he smiles back. And in you history class ask him a question about anything, it doesn't matter. The first thing you want to do is break the ice, so he at least knows who you are. Then later try and talk to him about anything in general ( this is much easier if your friends are with you, that way you have someone to back you up) AND do dress nice and take care of yourself, little things.
Take it one step at a time. :)
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