Girl has boyfriend
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
well I got kind of a problem there is this girl that I've been talking too, and I already "broke the ice" with her and we kind of flirt a little bit, but I don't know if I should ask her out cause she just move to my school this year and she has a boyfriend that goes to her old school, but it is a long distance relationship. Should I try to chase her around because she's that kind of girl who likes attention but since she can't really get it from her boyfriend. Or maybe my other option should be just to be really good friends with her, and then hopefully she'll break up with him. the reason I'm asking this is because the way we clicked I've never felt that before.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Hey dude,Its not suprising but i have myself in a situation much like your own, sadly I can not give any advice becuz I am in need some of my own. LIke you i have been hanging out with a girl who has a bf. We hang out all the time and she hardly ever hangs with her bf, awhile back her feelings about me came out as well as mine. Since then we have gotten really "close" to the point that she cheated on her bf with me. Now I told her about my feelings for her but she says she is confused about the situation and thinks we should take a step back and just be friends. Now to be honest that was like a stab to the heart, it hurt becuz I thought for a brief moment that we might have something and that she would break up with her bf for me. Im sure thats how all the ppl that are on the side think. And now im worried if what we had was just becuz she doesnt recieve attention and love from her bf like i have showed her. Almost a friends with benefits but not sexual. Well I know i havent helped you out but maybe i can help you from further heartbreak by not doing what i did. And anyone who has advice for us love sick gentlemen please speak.
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