she is a good- girl (nationaly ranked violinist), I am a bad-ass
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I meet this girl (x) on vacation and we had a real conection and ive been geting mixed signals from her sister and her friends and theres one other thing we r complete opposites she is a good- girl (nationaly ranked violinist, never had so much as a demerit at school, and hot as hell) where as her friends have called me a badass and pimp among other things (i play guitar in a metal band listen to metal and raise all kinds of hell at school)so i was wondering is there anyway this could work we only live a hour(1/2) from each other and talk by phone or im every day so could there be any chance it would work?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Give it a shot
I definitely think you two could hit it off. You already have music in common, which is a universal language. Just because she plays the violin, doesn't mean that she sits at home listening to classical music. In fact, I had a friend in high school who played in the orchestra and listened to nothing but rock/metal music at home. You'll probably find that you both have plenty in common, especially since you only live 1/2 hour away from eachother (you can relate when it comes to where you grew up/current familiar surroundings). Maybe you've already found out that you have a lot in common, considering that you talk to her in one form or another every day. You must talk about something! I think you should give it a shot.
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