Am I too young to have sex?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i am 16 years old and i'm currently in a relationship with this guy who is cheating on his gf. i know lots of ppl think that he's just using me but i know we love each other and there is a personal obligation why he cant leave his gf. We have decided to have sex and i was just wondering if 16 is too young or that if i think i'm ready the age doesn't really matter.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Who ever said it's immoral with out parents consent is wrong. Your 16 you might be matture in some areas of your life but sex is not one of them. I speak from personal expericance. Almost a month to my 17th birthday I gave birth and gave her up for adoption. I still see her though. You still have to finish high school and perhaps college. You are far better off waiting I do agree with the immoral thing though it is immoral for your boyfriend to be with your for what ever personal reason he has it's WRONG.
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