I Love her more than anything ive ever loved and im trying to do right for her
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I feel very odd asking a question like this to someone I dont even know but Im desperate. last night my girlfriend was checking my email and found an email that I had sent to this one girl *whom I do not like whatsoever* and she was so upset, because it was lyrics to a song, and I said something at the end of sending the lyrics that came out totally the wrong way, its now august 8th the email was sent june 11th and we have been dating since march 16th, I Love her more than anything ive ever loved and im trying to do right for her, I told her it is all completely my fault, I want to marry this girl and spend the rest of my life with her and I want to know what I can do to make her feel better about me, if you can please just give me some sort of advice, I have no one else to ask I feel ashamed of myself that I ever sent the email to that girl. if you can give me some sort of advice it would be much appreciated, thanks for your time.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
no plan to lose her
I go with this girl and we have been dating for a year and one month. She men's the world to me and would not trade her for the world. I used to go with her years ago in 2003 then got back with her aug. 9th 2004. Over the year we broken up, she had sex with 10 or 11 boys. She was scared to tell me because she did not want me to break up with her again, but when i found out about it, I cried and cried. But, i did not break up with her, becuzz her love is my treasure and that sex is just sex........not love.........She does not even think about her past of what she did before she got back with me, but I agrue with her and gives her pain for the past she made. I am angry becuzz i wasn't the first to break her virginity. I fuss and hurts her feelings as she bolds up like a baby, asking me for forgiveness. I ask myself why am i angry at her when it's just the past. I always bring up the past that she did just to hurt her feelings. I really wonna marry this gurl, becuzz she has never been in love, but treats me like a king. She cries to her knees that she does not wonna loose me, and that she would never again fall in love, becuzz she gave all herself to me. We've been there trough thick and thin since we got back together. We cried for one another and wiped each others tears from pain. We laught and play like a married couple. We goes out to eat and look at movies She is dangerously in love with me and i am dangerously in love with her. We felt in love unexspectively. I love her so much that i try not to think of what she did in the past. I need her like a baby needs a diaper. She is 15 and i am 17 years old. I don't understand why her past creeps me so terribly as i try loving her more. It's like the more she tells me how much she loves me, the more i take advantage. Tell me what can I do about her sex past. I bought her a promise ring this month. I takes her to the river front to view the water of the moonlight that reflects on top of it. I hope I don't loose her..........Everyone forgets about what happened in the past and moves on,,,,,,,,,,,but i punishes her by breaking her heart every moment by quick tempers, hitting her, not carrying how i hurt her, becuzz of her past that she did not mean to do, but deep inside she is my angel that has changed her life around just to never loose me and i'm acting like a bitch over her past. I cannot sleep at night without hearing her voice. I cannot sleep at night from her sex past, but I love her as a real life Romeo and Juliet. I want to have children with her and move from this ungreatful citie that remains with its past that haunts me. Please tell me what to do and how to get rid of this past. I messed up my chance of being with her the first time, but does not plan to loose her over a long time ago past.
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