We Flirted but He Drew Back
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
me and this guy have been sort of seeing eachother for 3 weeks now and whenever we see eachother we watch a movie and just cuddle so i got the idea that yeah he likes me and we are going to go out plus he said we would when the right time came, but this guy happened to have gotten his nose broken so he had to go in this past tuesday to get it snapped back into place so i figured hes going to be sore so we won't talk for like 2 days
thursday that just passed he came on the internet and we talked for like 2 mins and then he just left and it wasn't a huge conversation and i am kind of getting the idea that he just doesn't like me anymore but i want to know so i don't keep acting flirty around him and everything like i reaallly do like him but i mean if he doesn't want to go any further with this then thats how its got to be right..
i just want to know if i should just give up now..because if i'm right and i annoy him thinking he still likes me he'll just get sick of me and i would still love to be friends with him!can you help me?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
cut back flirting
Say, "Is there something wrong? You haven't been talking as much to me lately." If he says, yes, then he'll explain, and then it's probably only a matter of time before you two start going back to your old flirty ways. If he says no and still hardly talks to you, then back off on the flirting. Cutting off the flirting could mean that he just wants to be friends.
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