Choosing Between Two Guys
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Person
I met the first love of my life at work, A. we went out for seven, nearly eight months. but things between us...they weren't sunshine and roses. I loved him with all of my heart (i gave my virginity to him), even up till the day i broke up with him. I felt as though i had to ... he was as moody as a woman on permenant pms. it drove me insane. so i broke up with him ... and quit the job we worked at together.
then a couple of weeks later...probably three...i met B. and..having someone treat me so wonderfully...as though i were perfect..someone who didnt make me cry at night befor i feel asleep. was amazing. and i suppose i feel in love with that.(i took his virginity)
we have been together for almost two months now...and he has already told me numerous times he wants to marry me.
how do i express i dont love him as much as he cares for me? and....how do i tell him ... my feelings for A ... are still there. that i cant make them go away becuase i never stopped loving him to begin with. it was fine when i didnt talk or see him. but then we started talking and hanging out and everything flooded over me again.
i dont know what to do. or who to be with.....help me.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
so what should i do
I have a boyfriend and been together about 2 months and we already say we love each other he said it first and i say it back i do love him but its just starting out. ok theres other guy and he likes me and i like him to and i hanged out him one day and i kissed him i really do like him but i dont know what to do and i just dont want to hurt them if i have to choose and the other guy tells me that he wants to be with me. so what should i do
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