My Boyfriend and his Family are Liars
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My boyfriend has lied to me before. He has lied to me about a party he went to and one of his ex-girlfriends told me the next day that he was there. He also lied to me about haveing one of his ex-girlfriends in the car with him and my brother just riding around one night. His parents dont seem to like me that well. He has a cell phone and when his parents got his cell phone bill he had a bunch of calls to both of his ex-girl friends. When I first asked him he told me that they were all incomming calls and then later on he told me that they would call him and leave him voice messages and he would call them back. But the phone bill said they talked on there for like 15-20 mins some times and he said that it wasnt him it was one of his guy friends when they went fishing.
Then his parents told me that he picked one of his ex-girl frieds up one night at 1:00 and just went driving around until 4:00 because his parents and brother and sister wasnt home they were staying at there camper so he had the house to his self. His parents said that his ex-girl friends little sister told his little brother about him picking her up, and they over heard him talking to her so later on they cornerd him and made him tell them.
My boyfriend asked his brother and he said that he didnt know what he was talking about. Then later on his parents called one of his ex-girlfriends and told her to come over to take him to the fair but he wouldnt go with her. He said that he never went and picked her up that his parents were just making it up.
What do you think? I told him that I belived him but if he called another girl one more time then I would break up with him. But do you think that he really picked her up or his parents were just making it up to break us up? Also what do you think I should do? Please write me back ASAP!
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Too much trust?
O.k I understand exactly where you are coming from.First i just want to say what a wonderful person you are for trusting him through all of that. Trust is wonderful but if a person is untrustworthy you shouldn't be with them. It sounds like your a really sweet girl, no one should be going through that. I going to tell you something else if it smells like s***, it is s***. Please don't be naive sweety. If you see phone numbers on his bill with ex-girlfriends numbers he's speaking with them. If he says they call him tell him to nip that in the butt. In other words why is he still talking to his ex-girlfriend on the phone?. If he isn't willing to make certain changes (if this relationship is serious) go your own way and don't except anything he wouldn't. goodluck babygirl
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