I Want Him Back NOW

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I was with a guy for about a year. I loved this man so much. and we broke up and it was pretty ugly.

for a while he didn't wanna have anything to do with me. and now we are talking again. he texts me he tells me he loves and misses me. we see each other on Saturdays.

I asked him where we stood and he said I thought we were taking it slow. so idk what dose this mean? is there any way I can get him to want me more. I don't want it slow.

RomanceClass.com Advice
You should be quite grateful that things are on the men! Thousands and thousands of people are desperate to get their ex back and are faced with huge challenges. You guys are talking! You're seeing each other! That is great.

Broken trust takes TIME to mend. It can't be rushed. And anything worth having is worth working on. So invest the time. Show him every single day that the way things were before are not the way things are now. That you learned from that situation and things will be better going forward. Prove that to him with your actions. Every day.

The more time you invest, the more he will come to believe in the new future you have together.

-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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