Liking Lots of Guys in Middle School

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
a boy loves me from 6th grade and now i'm in 8th. i love his friend from 5th grade. the boy i like loves my best friend and my friend also like him. and boy who likes me love me so much but i was not loving him.

some days i have some feelings for him and i think that i love him but when i think of my crush my heart just fall but i cant let my best friend go.

what should i do? Advice
It's very common for groups of friends to all be fond of each other, and for different people to appeal to you on different days. Some days you're in the mood for the fun, joking one. Sometimes you really want to be with the quiet, serious one. It all depends on what is going on in your life and what your needs are.

Especially in the middle school years, life is about testing out all the options, seeing what works, what doesn't work, and what compromises you're willing to make. No boy is ever going to have "everything". So you find out over time if you are primarily interested in the joking ones, the serious ones, the focused ones, or something else. This is your testing phase.

So it's fine to like them all, and it's fine to spend time with each one, to see long term what works best for you.

-- from Lisa
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