We Like Each Other - I Want Proof

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i like this girl. and her friend confirmed that she likes me to. (apologies for taking the easy way out).

Here's the problem though. she just ended a relationship with a boyfriend who had been cheating on her and she told the same friend she told that she liked me that because of this, she is not ready for a relationship yet.

i still plan on asking her myself if she likes me (pretending i didnt hear it from her friend).

is this a good idea? i respect her feelings in this instance, but how long is too long to wait? when should i stop investing time if her answer continues to remain the same????

RomanceClass.com Advice
You know she likes you! You know you like her! What else is there to know?

Don't put her in the uncomfortable position of having to justify her feelings. Just start spending time with her. Talk with her. Be there for her. You can prove with your actions that you are a fun person to be with. You don't need to pressure her into anything else right now.

Good luck!


-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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