can i trust my girlfiend

Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Male
my girlfiend contacted my by the internet. we have meet each other since and have spent time together, my problem is she started get text massages from a man she was having sex with when we where together i sked her to delete him and she said she did well then i seen his name still on here phone and e-mail address book she ahs showed me there gone now but how so i really know. well this last weekend i was staying in a motel and she let me use her computer so we could im each other. i got late and she went to bed so i started looking at her pics and found a man naked who she knows by the internet only i asked her to get of them and said if she wants nakes pics i would let her take them of me. and she got mad and told me not to delete them this caused a fight the next day and she said she got rid of them well i heard that one before. then i asked her for here e-mail password since she said she had nothing to hide and she said no i have personal letters and the such i dont want to have to get rid of so shes still wants to hide something from me. should i end this now or wait till she feels ready to get rid of these things. i do love her but i am really losing my trust in her. thanks Advice
Since you love her, continue to discuss these problems with her and see if you two can resolve the problem.

She should let you see her email account because she been less than truthful. Once trust is gone, it is up to her to make it better by being more open and honest with you.

My opinion, however, is that she doesn't want to give up her secret life and will continue to hide things from you. But time will tell.

Let her know how you feel and maybe things will turn out ok.

Good luck! George

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