Lost love?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been with my fiance for almost 7 years now. When we first started dating I was only 17, he was my first bf. I didn't know what I wanted at the time, I just knew or thought that I was in love. At that time I made alot of promises that I thought I wanted out of life, like to live in our hometown and other stuff. Well when it came to moving for college he came with me, now we have a house together and 3 dogs. Not only this but I am his neice's godmother. So I am feeling like I am stuck in this position, like even if I am not with him I will forever be surrounded by him. For a while now I have not felt the same way that I use to. I know or believe that he is truely in love with me. But, I do not feel the same, I have even cheated (kissed), just recently, another guy at a bar that I went to. And I don't even feel guilty. I know that he has been going on the internet and sending dirty emails to some girls, even his picture, and that didn't even bother me, I don't care. I need help on how to end this relationship as nicely as possible. When we have gotten into fights in the past, where we almost broke up, he had threatened to end his life or said that he didn't even care to be alive without me. It is almost like I wish he would fall into love with someone else and him to just cheat on me and that be the end. I would love to be friends because I view him as one of my best friends and I do love him for that, but only that. Please help me I am stuck!

RomanceClass.com Advice
Now that he is active on the Internet perhaps he would not be so distraught by the thought of your splitting up.

In any case, you need to find a professional counselor to help you (not you and your husband) to figure out how to handle this. If the counselor decides that you husband should be brought in, then do that.

Do something about this. You shouldn't waste your life living miserably, you only get one time around.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question! All Advice in the category - Breakup Issues All Questions & Answers by Category Most Recent 20 Questions Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.

Advertisement

Sparkly Irridescent Glitz Gel Going to a party or special event? What to feel special no matter what you're doing? Roll on some glitz! Perfect for adding a special bit of sparkle to your day or evening. Buy Glitz Gel at EclecticLady.com