Fights and Arguing:
Forks Up or Down?
Sometimes arguments start over really silly things - like whether forks should go prong-up or prong-down in the dishwasher. You fight because of ´tradition´ - ´I´ve always done it this way´ when really it doesn´t matter much either way.
Choose your battles. There are some things simply not worth arguing over. Try alternating between the two methods - undoubtely over time you might even forget who thought which way was best!