Absence of Conflict
Many people feel that soulmates would never fight, so they avoid conflict so that they can keep up the ideal relationship. Real relationships have discussions and arguments, but they take place reasonably so that both partners end up with what they want. If you are always avoiding or dodging fights, the result is not a good relationship. When a real issue arises, neither partner will know how to deal with the conflict.
Expect that there will be some discussion, and look through the argument tips to learn how to work through them rationally and reasonably. YouŽll find that your skills with these minor disagreements will serve you well in the long term.
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