Long Distance and Internet:
A 'real' lovers point of view!
You aren't there, your lover is lonely. They start chatting on the internet and soon have several guys chatting, IM and texting them. Your partner says this is not cheating. But is it taking their time from you, making them think of other people, even fantasizing about sex with them? It is cheating and your real lover will feel the same emotions as if you had done it in person!!! Don't say it's not real, that your online friends aren't real to you! If they weren't and didn't satisfy your craving for attention you wouldn't be there chatting in the first place!!
It is hard to be apart from your lover and the temptation is great to just find a friend online to deliver what is not there at that moment. Don't do it; it can derail your real world love. Think about your real lover, write love poems, look at their pictures, be strong!! Your internet lovers will never be there for you; your real world lover will!!
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