Cheating and Lying:
I Have Cheated - Now What?:
Don't lie about it!!
Many people on here say not to tell, but that is the worst thing you can do.
He/She is going to find out eventually, and they will be more upset if you never told them.
My boyfriend and I were having some problems so we decided to take a break. Well, on that break, I was upset and drunk so I slept with a friend.
The next day he called me saying he still wanted to be together. I could have not told him. Really, we weren't together. It would have been easy to not tell him. But I did. On that same phone call, I told him what happened.
Yeah, he was mad. Real mad. But you know what? We worked through it. He appreciated that I didn't lie to him. He can trust me to tell him the truth, even if it hurts.
We have been together for 10 months now, and I love him and I want to be with him for a very very long time. If I hadn't told him, we wouldn't have a chance.
So remember, you have to tell him
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