dont act nervous!! it just makes it awkward... k? i mean... im a girl and im dating this guy who is really nervous sometimes.. and it just makes it hard to talk and be myself around him... so dont be nervous! and keep eye contact! its great! be funny (if you can lol) and definitely have long hugs!! and hug her from behind! its the best thing in the whole fricken world! but dont try to shove ur hands down her pants or up her shirt or anything! thats just gross and so disrespectful and mean so... ya! do it!!