Hands-off? Hands-on?

Depending on how well you know each other, hands can do different things while you kiss. If itīs the very first kiss, it might be good to just keep your hands at your side or behind your back. Your date might get nervous if they start to feel hands creeping over them.

If youīre more comfortable with each other, try just hugging each other with your arms. You can use your hands and arms to pull the other person close, and to increase contact. Thatīs always a nice feeling!

One of my favorites, you can also run your fingers through your partnerīs hair. Having your hands near their head can start to feel īcontrollingī, so be cautious with this, but gentle caresses should be fine.