Give 100% of yourself
Well my theory of a great long distance relationship is to love with your heart, and act loving and most important for you to be able to love someone at the full extend you must learn how to love your self(taking care of your self physicly and mentaly) then you are ready to love once you've done that. And to understand the meaning of Love I would say that the best definition for love its God!!! He is the best teacher!!! trust me, Im not religious but I've learned that from him, I mean hi let his son die for us... I dont know who would do that, if you know please tell me!!! Well now after you work youself, you go for the next step, if you really want that relationship to work you must be faithfull, honest and express your feeling even if sometimes it might seam silly the secret is not to keep a secret from each other, share your fears so you can help eachother... and like the tipe "give a 100%" sais, never go to bad mad at your boyfriend of girlfriend always try to solve the problems at the sametime they started or find a why to make it better, and that also will show your partner you really care about her(him)...
Well I say all that because I'm in a long distance relationship, it is hard but it really depend on both, we always try talking or emailing each other even though sometimes we both dont have time, but we usually do our best to comunicate, and when we do sooo we tell each other everything hehehehe and share our goals, dreams, fears, situations, and whatever else you can imagine... true love means to "give a 100%" of your self and be willing to risk or even loose to help your partner when they are struglling, I belive that the most important in life is to be happy and with a honest and beautiful relationship it is much possible to be a happy person, ofcourse there will be fights if not it would not be a serious serious relationship... what I try to do alot is to be my girlfriends best friend while being her boyfriend so like that we can build a stronger relationship(IT REALLY WORKS, I PROMISS YOU THAT!!!)... well you good luck on yours and dont forget Love with your heart and if you forget or isn't sure of whats love learn with God look and search his teachings can help you alot... well him and his son gave his life to us so then you decide for your self if you agree with me or not... take good care... any questions if I can help I would love to!!! I want a better world and Im willing to die for that!!!
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