The stressed-out argument breakup What do you do if you´re feeling stressed out, get into an argument and angrily yell out "I´m breaking up with you!" Or what if your mate does this to you? Everyone has their stressed out moments, and it´s very tempting during a fight to just give up and call it quits. It´s the ultimate statement of "I win, because I won´t be around you any more to hear your side." Once it´s out though, it seems pretty final. Give yourselves both time to cool down. You don´t have to stand by it just because you said it - everyone says things in arguments that they did not mean. Sit down with your partner a few hours later, and go over the situation. If you really do want to break up, it´s better to do it in a calm, reasonable way, where you both get to talk to each other. If you break up during a big fight, neither one of you will get good closure on the relationship, and it will be hard to move on. See the tips on arguments on how to prevent an argument from getting to that stage. www.romanceclass.com