How to Date:
Talk Topics - Basics
How-To on Talking to your Date
If you are really tongue tied with your date, be sure to read my How To on Talking with your Date. Really, the key is getting to be FRIENDS with this person!
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After you've broken up, and you've decided you can't fix it with words, favours, or apologies, I see one thing for you to do. BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION. This means..
- Be the biggest flirt
- Flirt with her/him but 10x more with anyone else.
- Give quick & brief replys to her/his questions, or when she/he sparks conversation.
- Accidentaly... ignore her/him.
- Quietly make friends with her/his friends.. but with others too, so it's not overally abvious.
- Always have something going for yourself, perhaps you share good food with friends, hold a party, be the first to talk about a "big event" on the news.
- Be confident! You want to come off.. like you've never been better.
- Perhaps accidentaly start a light rumour that you like someone other then her/him.
Be the nicest, most outgoing, best dressed, coolest, smartest, guy/girl you can be and stay confident.
The goal is to appear you have moved on.
While secretly you want her/him back bad.
People want what they can't have. So give her/him a reason to hang on, but seem hard to get at the same time.
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You can learn a TON about a person by asking what their dream house would be! Would it be in the city, in the country, on the beach, by the ocean? Would it be a giant marble mansion, or a Victorian gingerbread-style creation, or a modern glass-filled wonder? Would it be furnished with oak furniture, or high-tech toys, or lots of snuggly furniture? You can probably spend weeks talking about what the ideal house would be like, and learn quite a lot about the person in the process.
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Just ask them what your bounderies are and same with you..lay out the importin stuff first. But dont be in to much of a hurry to do thing with them, Just see if they want to wait till there married to have sex. See if they want to have kids and how many. Just talk about things that you would like to have with them in a long lasting relstionship!
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend BE LIKE MADS!
WALK, TALK AND ACT LIKE THE MADS. ALWAYS PRETEND YOUR NUMBER ONE AND THE KING OF LADIES, THEY WANT TO BE TOLD WHAT TO DO.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Be relaxed
If you find yourself toung tied and tense just relax it will be suprising how amny topics will come ou if your relaxed and he/she knows you are
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When you and your boyfriend or girlfriend break up with you, there are some phases you go through with the break up.
If you are the dumper: You have 3 phases:
*Phase 1- You feel bad for them after you break up with them and you think you will have a bad reputation when you get back to school.
*Phase 2-You think you have lost something special and close to your heart
*Phase 3- You have moved on and you dont care anymore
If you are the dumpee: You also have 3 phases:
*Phase 1- You are upset, sad. If your a guy- you want to be alone. Girls- grab the ice cream, best friend, and the notebook
*Phase 2- You get angry. You think that they are the worst person on the earth. (the dumper)
*Phase 3- You don't care anymore. You have moved on to bigger and hopefully better things.
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Talk about which celebrities you each think are hot
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Comfort Foods
What is a comfort food? Itīs a food that makes a person feel "relaxed and comfortable". Itīs the rice pudding that reminds the person of being at Grandmaīs house, where it was always quiet and loving. Itīs the mashed potatoes that are covered with gravy, that make a person think of Thanksgiving and family all around. Itīs different for every person, but every person has one or two comfort foods. Remember, these arenīt *favorite* foods. Theyīre the foods that a person reaches for when stressed, that make them feel safe and cozy. If you learn what someoneīs comfort foods are, you can be ready if that person needs comfort someday!
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Course Catalog Fun
Get a course catalog from your local community college and look through the listings together. Lots of times they have fun one-day courses on everything from introductions to wine to learning Elvish writing to learning to crochet. Talk about which courses sound interesting. If you're free on that day - sign up! One of the BEST ways to get closer to your partner is to learn new skills together.
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my date topics
D - dreams
H - hopes
A - ambitions
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Favorite Animal to Keep
Just about every person has a certain animal that they adore, that they'd LOVE to have a pet if they had the room, money or if it was legal. Talk about your dream pets! Would you have a giant jungle behind your house to keep your pet tiger? Would you have a huge tank to keep a pair of dolphins in? Let your imagination run wild!
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Want some insight into what someone wants out of a mate? Ask what his/her favorite couple is. Is it an old-time romance, with gentility and grace? Is it a modern-day spitfire romance, full of passion and flame? Youīll get a sense of just what they are looking for in life.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Favorite games
Girls like to talk about themselves.They will like to talk about their favorite game or team.Or even their favorite sport.It is a good icebreaker.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend favorite place to be
ask your partner if there was anywhere in the world they would like to be where would it be
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Feeling the Inspiration
We all have people who really inspire us in life, who helped us reach new heights and achieve things we never thought were possible. Talk to your partner about the people who inspired you, and ask about inspirations in your partner's life. What was the situation like? Did you ever get to thank the inspiring person?
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Hobby to Learn
Everybody has some sort of hobby they'd like to take up if they had the time or money. Maybe it's flying planes, maybe it's quiltling, maybe it's surfing. What hobbies would your partner and you be intersted in? There are always ways to get started, even if it just involves taking out books from the library. Learn more about each others' dream hobbies and get going!
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend How about them Yankee's?
If you and your date are really tounge-tied, then use a little sarcasm to win your gal's heart! Sometimes making a joke about how you are both nervous is just what you need to get things relaxed.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend If I Had a Million Dollars ...
Everyone dreams about winning the lottery and having enough money to do just about anything. Ask what that would be? Buy an island and donate it as a wildlife sanctuary? Buy a huge house with luxury cars and indoor pools? Travel non-stop around the world? Buy a ride to the Space Station?
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Over the phone love
I have this girlfriend, who now lives in another state, and it was hard keeping a conversation going, when we related to two different parts of the country. Talk about actions u did in the past, and how they've affected the present. It always leads into a three hour conversation about shoulda, coulda, woulda's. End by telling her that everything u'd done lead up to now,and u wouldn't undo one single thing.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Play boy/girl Bunnies
Have you ever been in a monogamous relationship for "ages" and when you finally break up get angry because of all the other "opportunity" you passed up.
I see a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship that is something you build on that someday developes into an engagement and wedding bells. There's a lot of "unsuitable" people out there so the only way you're gonna find "the one" is to filter out the garbage. So... dont be afraid to have other male or female "friends".
Being a shift worker or the excuse that you are a shift worker makes this task a whole lot easier trying to find an excuse why you can't go to the movies on tuesday night.
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More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Play hard to get
If you are too available, your partner might think thay you are desperate. Be available but not always. Sometimes you can tell him/her that you had along day and you need to relax a little and that you will call him/her the next day. Do call on that day, but he/she will not sleep thinking why the excuses now. Which is why you need to call the next day.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Poetry reading!
Pick up an poetry book and read it with him/her. You could pick romeo and juliet and read it to each other. Or you could try to write poetry to each other. Girls are charmed by this and for guys this may bring out thier soft side for you.
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If you're not much into reading, it is PERFECT to read stories together. Get the Sci Fi short story collection put out each year of the year's best sci-fi short stories. Each of you read a story at a time and then talk about it. Or read it aloud to each other. Reading aloud can be GREAT fun, very relaxing and it's easy with short stories.
If you're more adventureous, take on a whole novel, taking turns reading. If there's a book you've always wanted to read but never had the time, this is a great way to share it together!
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Ask them what they would do in a risky situation. For example let's say you were walking through the woods and all of a sudden a guy with a chainsaw just starts chasing you, and the other person falls, what do you do? Go back and help or run for you life. Also you could ask what they would do if they had one day left to live. This would help you get to know more about how they feel towards you.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Scared to Kiss?
Most girlz think that guyz have to kiss the girl...not true..guyz are scared to as well just go 4 it girlz he wouldlove it
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Siblings..
Ask them about their family. And to share stories of the trouble they got into as kids.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend talk abou you all relationship
talk about how has you all realtionship been going and what yall can improve in yall relationship
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Talk about horses
EVERYONE LOVES HORSES. Talk about horses. Then when your done ask her if she loves you.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Talking about eachother's dreams.
Talk about the dreams they had as a child. For instance I tell my boyfriend I always wanted to marry Mr. Prince Charming and I told him that Mr. Prince Charming is him, he would start blushing. Or talk about dreams you have in your sleep, it can get quite interesting.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend The most important thing
Ask them about the most important or highest achievement they have gotten in their life. Basically, what was the most important moment of their life. It could be the birth of a child, an accomplishment in athletics, or something more personal and interesting.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend treat em mean... keep em keen
If you 're ever given an ultimatum like "football or me?" choose football, even if you dont want them to leave. Dont be afraid to tell your partner (once they're hooked) to get lost. Of course that's a sign to take your hobby a little less seriously but they'll figure out that they love you and football is a part of you. Besides, if you're too easy to control then you're in for some trouble. Be a shepard not the sheep. Your partner will like your self confidence...
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend try to put ur self in the scenario.....
try to put ur self in the scenario instead of asking
them wht they would do
asking them questions may make them feel like they are being interviewed.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend VERY IMPO (Guys and Girls !)
If you have read most of these tips listed on this page, try not to do them one after the other with your partner.
Otherwise it would sound like you had prepared to say it. watch out :)
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend What about his past?
Before you try getting to know the person a little bit better try getting to know more about his past...For ExampLez try asking him how many girlfriends he has had before...or...Wats the farthest hes ever gone with a girl...How long have his other relationships lasted...and thins like that will help u brake the ice.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend What are you looking for?
Ask him what is he looking for in a girl and then you let him know what you are looking for in a man and then you see of you match and don't change for hime change for you.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend What sports do you like?
Ask them what sports they like or if they play any sports.
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend what's you favorite band?
Music is a topic for everyone...always be open to the liking of their music. Once to start talking about music...mention the fav song...instruments...so much here to talk about
More Details and Options | Forward To a Friend Who would you rather make out with?
It's always fun to give each other the scenario: "If you had to sleep (life or death situation) with Janet Reno or Barbara Walters, who would you choose?" Have your date explain his/her response, and take turns coming up with others to sleep with.
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How to Date Tips
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Beautiful & Inexpensive
Both men and women love flowers. They're the symbol of romance. You can get just the ones you want at unheard of prices, because they're direct from the grower. You save money, your partner is thrilled!
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