i met her about 2 to 3 weeks ago and we just started hanging out after texting for a good amount of time. today was the second day. we watched a movie in my room and went to go play wii after that. i never made any moves because she still has a boyfriend but can still see other people? i took her home and she said i'll text you sometime. and i don't know if it was just me but she kind of swayed out. after she mentioned a boyfriend (on the ride home) it kind of made me blank out. i couldn't say goodnight like i wanted to or even walk her to the (appt) door. did i mess up? or does she expect me to text her? i don't know? help?

Hi InnaVisionl

By reminding you, after spending time with you, that she has a boyfriend, she may have been warning you not to 'make any moves', so you probably did the right thing.

You are friends ~ you text, you watched a DVD and played Wii, you haven't dated.

She says that she will text you again ~ and maybe she already has. Or you could text her. But try to just keep it friendly, without pressure.

It may be that you are meant to be her next boyfriend, or she may just like you as a friend. It may even be that she will find it difficult to have both a boyfriend and a male friend, at the same time, so she may start to keep her distance.

Just be pleasant and friendly and see how it goes

Good luck

thank you for your reply PDM, i really appreciate it.

you did take away all the negative thoughts, i had.
what you said, makes a lot of sense too.
but, i don't know how soon to text her back?
i was thinking about, giving it a day or two?
but, i feel i might miss my chance to keep her interested..

also, she recently moved here and her bf is in another state.
they are in an 'open relationship' so i don't really get it?
and when we first met, she said "you made my month" lol....
unless, she wants to take it 'super slow' ? i don't know..
or, she is just playing with me????

are there any signs, she would be giving when having a bf already?
she is kind of hard to read and is the only girl i feel this way for..
i'm kind of shy, around her. but, around others i can be myself.

i'm just confused and don't know, what to do exactly..