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Posted By: Emjay Is it possible to love a complete stranger - 07/22/07 03:00 AM
I have seen this girl on T.V (no names) we are in the same business but she is much more successful than I. I know we would be right for each other nd I have changed my life path nd goals to get to her. I love her from the bottom of my heart it's not it's not just a crush, I think about her all the time, i feel great wen I see a pic of her, I just want to learn everythin about her nd become her friend. In the meantime I'm goin crazy cause I can't be with her. I feel empty until I see her pic but it isn't enough I know I will meet her someday but don't know wat to do till than. Any advice would be much appreciated. P.S the only way to get to her is to succeed in the business we are both striving at!! Please write something
Posted By: PDM Re: Is it possible to love a complete stranger - 07/22/07 12:01 PM
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Posted By: PDM Re: Is it possible to love a complete stranger - 07/22/07 12:15 PM
I used to be in love with David Cassidy.

I imagined what it would be like when we met and what our shared home would be like ~ big, with huge windows and floaty net curtains, overlooking the sea.

I knew that if he just met me, he would think that I was as perfect for him as he was for me.

Just looking at pictures of him made me happy.


Was it a crush?
Of course it was.

If we had met, would he haved loved me as much as I loved him?

Well, how much did I love him?
Not at all, really, because I didn't know him.

If we had met, could he have fallen in love with me?
Who knows?
He might have; he might not have.

If we had met, would I have still loved him?
Who knows?
Probably not.

I have been to some of his recent concerts and it brought back lots of lovely memories ~ memories of an imaginary love affair.

He's OK. I like his voice, but I'm not sure that I would get on well with him in person.

I think that there is something we might call love at first sight ~ but you need to get to know the person in order to be sure that it is real.

I am sure that there are famous people, whom we have crushes on, and with whom we might actually fall in love, if we got to know them. But surely there has to be a meeting ~ a 'getting to know'?!

Someone else, on here, was talking about two men she had fallen in love with over the Internet. She hadn't met either of them.

I have heard of people falling in love via letters and I know that Internet dating can work, and I'm sure that some fans of well-known people genuinely do fall in love with them, but surely you cannot be certain that you love someone you don't really know?!?!
Posted By: Emjay Re: Is it possible to love a complete stranger - 07/22/07 11:22 PM
I agree it seems impossible but I do really love this girl I would give up everythin right now to be wit her cause it would be perfect nd would last forever I love her wit all my heart nd can't stop no matter how impossible it seems nd I know that this level of love nd committment will win through against the improbability of such a thing happenin.
Emjay, this is a crush.
Please don't become a psycho stalker.
Enjoy the crush, then get over it.
Posted By: sala Re: Is it possible to love a complete stranger - 07/24/07 08:50 PM
Agreed, a crush, though more-so an infatuation, if you will.
Posted By: PDM Re: Is it possible to love a complete stranger - 07/24/07 11:21 PM
Hi sal, yes, infatuation or crush, but not real love.
How old are you MJ? You can not love a picture of a person you love their soul, and you do not know her. She may be a total Meany in real life.

Crushes can be fun, but they can become obsession and thats not good.
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