Hey guys. Wow. I'm just in and out of thought these past few weeks. Anyhow, I was wondering, from a girls point of veiw, If a guy you knew from high school, who was a very good friend and asked you out with nothing but a wooden heart and a very tight budget.
Keep in mind. There is a girl I liked since high school, about...10th grade, basically, she's on my mind like moth to a flame.
Also, this girl has already broken my heart twice. Is there something wrong with me to keep trying to go after her?
Yep she made her intentions clear..
I'm not sure is I understand.
Hi again Lee.
If a girl likes you ~ really likes you ~ then money won't come into it.
I think that Illusive Fantasy may mean that, if this girl has broken your heart twice already, then you might have learned from that, and decided against pursuing her further.
Do you have reason to believe that she would be genuinely interested in dating you now?
Just from what she's left me in my inbox. And from a letter I've sent earlier past week. I think I finally broken though to something true. My heart feels right about this. The path is set.
I'll say that I have stopped pursueing her for some time but, now somwthing inside of me is just telling me to try again. SO I'm goning with it stepping it up a notch. I have changed alot during my absense, I think I cqn manage.
Well, Lee, give it a try, then, and see what happens.
Good luck
well guys. I executed my plan today some time at 2:00am. I had a DJ gig in another county and it was like 2:hours away from her house.
What I did before was I carved a heart out of wood and put mine and her's initials in them. I also made a mix CD with a note inside of it for. well I put all that in her mailbox then i cam home, sent her an e-mail say she needs to check her mail. Note, Mail doesn't run on Sundays here. I haven't heard anything back yet i hope to hear a good reply soon.
Well just to let yall know that this worked out almost as planned. One she didn't get until like 2 days later. Two, I'm scared for my own broken heart.
Wasn't she pleased with it?
I'm pretty she is. I've been trying to talk to her over the phone cause I have no clue when she checks her Facebook or e-mail. but I don't call excessively. She does work like me, but she also has college, which I'm trying to get back into.
She was pleased with the gifts. I just at one of her concerts. She plays flute in the college band. She jumped into my arms hugging me. Her grandparents were there, and I don't think the man of the family doesn't like me to much. I dunno though, I could be a little over reactive about that. Anyhow, I need to get ready for a trip tomorrow. I'll post when I get back.
It does doesn't it. She tells me her computer is acting up so that's why she hasn't contacted me back. But i can get a hold of her by phone. I'm just wondering if I'm making the right moves here?
If you are happy and she is happy and communication seems to be working reasonably well, then it sounds ok
I would take it slow and steady. It sounds like she's interested - you don't want to scare her off by seeming like an obsessed stalker. Find ways to stay in touch gently, and of course to spend more time with her.