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no i dint mean it but on the website it says make it seem like your not intrested anymore an she will change towards me it isnt a spell caster thats just the title of his guide

Do you really think that telling her untruths is the way to get her back?

Honest, truthful communication is best in my opinion ~ but that's just my take on it.

Let us assume that this brings her back to you ~ and then she discovers that you lied to her ~ what effect do you think that this would have?

Maybe it will work ~ or maybe she is just relieved that you now agree with her re the break-up.

Good luck

ok so i got myself a new girlfriend but it feels nothing like what i had with my ex do i just stick things out an see how it gose

Are you being honest with the new girl ~ about your feelings, etc?
Are you being fair on her?
Trust and honesty are central to a successful relationship.

yer i have been pretty honest but it seems to be getting my ex's back up i really don't know what to do now

What do you actually want to do?

haha u guys wouldnt believe what happend christmas night i was out in a pub with my friends and my ex friend comes up to me and say my ex was devastated when i got in a relationship with this new girl and that i should go over and talk to her, so i go over and we talked and kissed so am thinking hey i mite be getting sumwhere here then we had a bit of a argument she said she can not be in a relationship the way shes dances when shes out with her friends :S so i ened up calling her a slapper ( which she is now in my opinion ) so she then took it upon her self to make sure i was looking then go from guy to guy kissing them so we ended up arguing again and she started crying her friends kept telling me to go up to her to try and sort things out they said she had been telling them how much she missed me long story short we ended up arguing again and she punched me then the next day we where arguing again so i just told her i dont want her back no some shes not worth it and can not be trusted

Quite an experience!

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