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#407147 12/26/10 08:34 AM
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So i have known this guy for 3 years, we are really good friends. From the day i met him ive liked him, but the timing wasnt right. Although each year we got together atleast once. It wasnt until recently where i thought something might happen. He came over one night, and so i asked him what he was looking for because i want something serious. and he told me since he had just gotten out of a relationship he didnt want to jump into anything. He is also planning on moving away in the summer. So i took that as nothing more could come of it, but then he came over a week later. and the week after that. but its been almost a month since ive seen him even though HE texts/messages me everyday. sometimes he takes up to 3 hrs to reply. i have no idea what to do so I was just wondering if you had any suggestions on what i should do! if i should just wait it out our confront him?

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I have always thought that direct confrontation was the best way to handle things. It takes a hell of a lot of courage to do so, but is usually worth it in the long run. Maybe he likes you, and maybe he doesn't. We will never know because we aren't you. The only REAL advice I can give (I say real because it isn't your every day fairy tale advice) is to just go up to him and talk about it all with him. I know it will be super awkward, but if he looks you in the face when he talks you, then he is serious. If he is moving away anyways, then it shouldn't be too hard to bare this awkwardness for a little while in case it doesn't work out the way you planned.

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Hello Pine and welcome smile

I agree that the only way that you are going to find the answers that you seek is to have an honest, open heart-to-heart discussion with this man smile

Good luck smile


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Must confront him so that you will not where you stand to his life. You will not take for granted and take pride of yourself dont be fool over is charm.


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