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Ok.... this may sound strange but here's my story. I met this guy in May and we were together for about 2 months until his ex came back into his life and ruined everything. We mutually split up and decided to be friends but after a week he called me and started talking to me on MSN wanting to meet up with me so being the fool I am I agreed. It wasn't until he had slept with me that he told me he was back with his ex!!. I was shocked but kept it calm. We continued talking for a while and then he told me he never wanted to hear from me again so I deleted his msn account and his cell number. Then after 1 month he started talking to me again!!! And he came down for his birthday knowing he was still with his gf I still slept with him because I loved him and thought that somehow it might make him want me back!.

After this he then told me he didnt want to talk to me again. The same happened he came running back and then we continued meeting up and sleeping with each other behind his GF's back. Then he announces he is moving to another country to work!! I was very upset but even worse was the fact that his Gf was moving there with him. So... I saw him before he went and he told me he was going to miss me sooo much. A couple of days later I recieve and email from HER saying that she knows everything and they are moving on and don't want to hear from me again so I removed him from my life.

2 months later I made a fake hotmail account and added him which he accepted. After a while he guessed who it was and a wave of relief ran through me as he told me he was single again and she had moved back home. He then asked me if I wanted to go visit him....... So here I am sitting in his flat by myself whilst he is at work. We've been sleeping with each other and it feels like more for me.. I love him so much and I can't tell him because I know wat his reaction will be. I want him back and I would do anything including moving to where he lives just to be with him.... I don't want to get hurt again help!!!!! Thank you

Sorry but what makes you think that he won't do the same thing to you again. This is a guy who wants his cake and eat it to.
You need to move on with your life this is going to go no where for you except to keep getting you hurt over and over again.
I have no idea if you ever watch Dr Phil (I catch it here and there) but I love his saying "the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior" that sums it up in a nut shell.
And to me it sounds like he is playing both of you at the same time. Maybe his other girlfriend finally got wise to the situation and told him to take a hike so he is running back to you because you haven't told him that yet.
So I hope for you sake that you also tell the jerk to get lost. And if this guy is sleeping around how do you know that you won't get something you don't want from him.

Agreed. He sounds like a man who doesn't know how to respect a woman. If he did he wouldn't have cheated on his girlfriend or played with your emotions. This cannot end well and you need to move on and have some respect for yourself. You shouldn't be giving yourself to him when he has no commitment to you.

ugh, what a horrible person. i'm sorry that that's harsh, but i know what it feels like to be in love with somebody who is scum. do yourself a favor; get out of this now and find somebody who treats you the way that you deserve to be treated. let him face karma and get him out of your life for good. i know it's easier said than done, but seriously, honey, you don't need him--you only need things that are good for you and he sounds like he's essentially poison for your soul and well-being.