Oh yes you are so right. There is no one quite like me.
I am basing my opinion, and everyone has one...like the story of the elephant...old story, on my experience and those of people, both men and women, and my children and friends and family. You can't do any different than that no matter how open minded you think you are. You are only 1 person feeling the elephant.
I laugh at the idea that someone could read twighlight and become a love guru...
I suppose they are out there.
I will end here I only comented way back at the top of this string of posts about opposites attracting...I think they do, but I don't think that's a good reason to think things will work out. Got off topic.
Good luck to you and your relationship with your girl. Hope it works out and you have a happy ever after.