Hi again Raven smile

I'll be brief, for now, because it's bedtime, but yes, it is normal, I think, to find someone else attractive, even if one is in a committed relationship.

Problems only start when someone acts upon the 'crush'.

So beware! smile

As for the pill, I understand that its long-term use may not be healthy. Check it out and ask your doctor or nurse for information and advice.

Perhaps you should get some stronger condoms smile

"The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.